The title quote is from J. Calder Joseph.
I like Science Magazine and I recently read an article about children suffering from slower muscle development and coordination. It apparently has teachers and pediatricians worried enough that studies were conducted on 407,000 children from age five to ten. They blame over-cautious parenting, “Don’t get dirty.” “Hold my hand when we take a walk.” “Get off the sidewalk, it will ruin your dress.”
Parents fearing predators, or accidents, or getting lost, is keeping kids inside, and not encouraging enough social play. The studies proved that play is educating and provides better development of the brain and muscles. When we came home from school, when we finished our chores, we had the whole neighborhood to ramble and get up a game.
I remember when my youngest daughter allowed her kids to bike around the block and a worried parent reported to her that she had seen her son on the other side of the block; what she considered risky behavior.
Stuart Brown, Psychiatrist says: “A lack of play should be treated like malnutrition: It’s a risk to your body and mind.”
This is a recent quote from 2017 and I don’t know where Stuart practices. But I do recall my boys playing on the side-walk or the grass, snapping those little rolly bugs around like marbles. Or trying to catch lizards. And my daughter coming home from the school playground (where she walked by herself,) with scraped knees and a torn dress.
Diane Furstenberg said: “My best creation is my children.”
I love that quote because it is my view of motherhood as well.
“Men want to improve only the world, but mothers want to improve their whole family; a much harder task.” Harriet Freezer.
But the quotes I remember with humor, are those I grew up with. “Children Should Be Seen And Not Heard.” That uttered when my folks were playing a rousing game of Smear. We could watch as long as we didn’t kitbitz.
“Little Pitchers Have Big Ears” When the neighbor lady was visiting and the subject of pregnancy or other delicate matters would come up. Then it was, “Outside with you,” or “Go play”. I don’t know the origin of those homilies but it brings me in mind of the clever Americana art work of Norman Rockwell with the tousled headed boy, sporting a black eye and a huge grin, waiting outside of the principle’s office. Or the little girl hanging out the window of the car sticking out her tongue to the wind.
I think children had more fun growing up before computers and organized and automated everything.